THE COMPANION

The Companion 

Over the last few months we have been talking allot about depression and anxiety - and all that goes and comes with them. Its causes and its horrid pain. We discussed how depression and anxiety is rooted  ultimately in thee “Alone Differential”. We discovered that much of our depression is rooted in fear and most of our fear is rooted in anxiety and most of our anxiety is rooted in simply the torment of being alone in a world with too many people. Its facing daily life with too many decision‘s, choices, obstacles, consequence, and daily existence conundrums. We discussed how just having to deal with all of this life “stuff” alone was the biggest of issues. We even fantasized about having this magical person who would knock on your door and say-”Hi my name is Bob, I will be taking care of things from this time forward. I will be handling all the concerns and important choices you have to make. Even going with you to the store holding your hand so you don’t have to deal with your social issues. I will take care of all of life’s paper work , people issues,  Family issues , relationship issues and life concerns“. Wow we decided- what a blessing that would be. To have someone who would tell you who to date, marry, - what job to take what phone calls to make what to ware and where to live. They would lay out your whole future for you and all you would have to do is trust them and believe that they had your best interest at heart. 

So anyway after thinking about this idea and concept I felt it was time to start introduce this person and what we might call him. I think a good start with be -”The Companion”. 

Now this person would not be a mate or business partner but a life coach. But more then a life coach as they can only advise and suggest- no this person would be infallible, without fault, perfect, always there, never late, and more- they would be completely free of charge. But lets take it up a notch. Lets add to the mix that they would be personally omnipresent, meaning they would be with you at all places at all times.

From when you got up in the morning to getting dress, to leaving the house, going to a party, -everywhere you went they went. Also to really sweeten the pot, they would always have your best interest in mind. They would think of you, worry about you, care about you, and have on top of it all your perfect life plan. But lets take it up even further; not only are they personally omnipresent , they are also personally all powerful  (Omnipotent) - but even more they would be All knowing ( Omniscient.)  Meaning that they always knew the right thing to do making it impossible to make a mistake in your life.

When it came to what medications to take, or get off of or how much to take. When it came to what your future career would be and in what place-well they already knew the answer. 

I don’t know about you but that would surely end allot of my depression fears and worries. So for today I want to focus on “This COMPANION”. 

Who may he or she be ? What if there were one ?

What if it really was true ?

What if its just a fairytale and a tease ?

Well stick with this blog as we take this up a notch each month..

S.R.K

Counselor Th,A -Th.B -M.M.C.C.

Member New York State Mental Health Counselors Association U.S.A.

Author of three Books on emotional issues like

Depression, Addiction, Anxiety, Cutting, Suicide and

E-LIFE planning ..

Please join us and share in the journey to the healing goal of personal joy and peace like no other.